Actually, here's a question - assuming a cube where all instants and sorceries have retrace, which of these cards is most interesting?
kidding aside, the disdain is only good against expensive cards (and it filters a bit). Grip is only good when the opponent has a large yard, and then it is not of use anymore. Invasive can be too strong since you can retrace.
That said, many players do not like playing against repeatable counters, so keep that in mind. That makes the grip the most palatable one I think.