I feel you. It's really hard to carve out that time, and even when you do it's easy to fall back to the comfortable things--for me that's XCOM, Skyrim, and MGSV. It's important to not exert too much pressure on yourself, though, as that's how you grow to resent the demands of your hobbies, artistic or otherwise.
On the other hand, I know I wouldn't practice music or go on a run without some sort of structure, so there's clearly something to be said for forcing yourself to eat a balanced diet, metaphorically speaking. The question I always ask myself is why I feel a need to do this particular thing. Is it because I'm looking for comfort? Am I bored? Or am I actively excited to find out what happens? There's nothing wrong with pursuing a hobby simply because it helps pass the time pleasantly (wasting time interestingly is no waste of time), but it's important to notice the difference in your motivational state. So I want to ask you this: why do you feel a need to play those games? I suspect that when you answer that question fully you'll find out whether or not you actually want to play them or if you're feeling something else entirely. And remember, they are there for you, not the other way around.
I mean, it's mostly because I do still really enjoy playing them when I finally get around to it. Playing through a game like Shadow of the Colossus or making my way through a brand new area in a Souls game is very immersive and the gameplay feels rewarding. It's just that time constraints are the issue. I'm one of those people who when they get started on something need to see it through to its completion. However, it's just more and more difficult to carve out that time when there are so many other things competing with my free time.
The bigger thing might be that so many of my hobbies/alternate forms of entertainment just eat up chunks of time. Any larger woodworking project I get to is a time commitment of like 10-12 hours on a given weekend + miscellaneous follow-up during the week. I've got a small backlog of projects I've wanted to tackle, but haven't yet gotten to. The NBA is starting up again so keeping up with my team or tuning in for a big match-up is a good 2 1/2 hours right there. I've been back on that gym grind the last month with Delta leveled off in my area and back up to 3-4 times a week for about 2 hours after getting off work in the evening or stopping by on the weekend. Throw in the occasional FNM or meet up with friends to do other stuff and all of a sudden there's really not as much time as expected when the weekend rolls around. Hell, last weekend I just ended up binging Squid Game over two days and reorganizing Magic stuff.
I guess my big issue nowadays is that there's so many things that I want to do but just don't have enough time to get to them all and video games just end up being pretty low on that totem pole. Still love playing them when I can, but it's so daunting to start a game that isn't a small session ala Smash or Mario Kart or other party games.