We have a "Zwarte Piet" ("Black Pete") discussion going on in the Netherlands, which has reached quite a heated and unfriendly level, and mirrors the GamerGate discussion in parts. Basically this:
Who legitimately feels personal slight for something that happened eons ago, unless they have been explicitly taught from a young age to feel that? Stop teaching kids that 'Bad things happened in the past, and they happened to YOU!'.
Grown-up colored and white people are arguing whether Zwarte Piet (a historical figure that, for reference, has been around much longer than Santa Claus) is racist or not. I can understand where the group that feels Zwarte Piet is racist is coming from, but I can also guarantee you that not a single child thinks of the concept as racist, unless a grown-up has taught him that. Neither do those kids grow up believing colored people are inferior simply because there's a colored figure in folklore that happens to do a lot of work for an elderly and benevolent white male (Sinterklaas). In fact, Zwarte Piet doesn't register as a colored person at all, he's a character that's defined by his actions after all, not a character that is defined by the color of his skin.
At the same time I will defend anyone's opinion that the concept
is racist, even when I don't agree with that point of view, and I think it's appalling that the side I apparently agree with has been lashing out at the protesters with some very racist remarks ("Go home to your own country if you don't like our customs"; their own country would be the Netherlands, you idiot!), instead of trying to get where they're coming from. There's an unwillingness to reach out and understand that baffles me, and if you point out that fact, you are immediately labeled as "one of them" and "against the good cause" (i.e. Against Zwarte Piet, which I am not). Discussing things with an open mind is really hard when everyone is just gut reacting.
It's pretty much the same thing with GamerGate. You can't have a nuanced opinion, even less so when you're a woman. Either you're a White Knight/Whiny Feminist or you are a Misogynist Scumbag/Misguided Sheep. Isn't the truth somewhere in the middle most of the time?
Edit: By now we're probably firmly in GBS territory again, but hey